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Xian's avatar

I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious. - Albert Einstein

Craig Perry's avatar

Love it! Thanks for reading Xian!

DionJG's avatar

Craig, this resonates A LOT. I spent years feeling empty despite being "busy". Law degree, restaurant work, full schedule. The problem wasn't lack of movement. It was movement in directions I'd defaulted into.

I picked law because I had to choose something when I didn't know what I wanted. Restaurant work was circumstance. I was climbing mountains, but mountains I'd randomly picked or fell into. (not ones I actually chose after asking what I wanted). The shift: recognizing the gap between who I was being and who I could be. Then asking "what percentage of my potential am I willing to accept?" That's when movement became meaningful.

Not because I found the "right" mountain, but because I finally chose my mountain after honest self-negotiation about what I actually wanted. Your penguin didn't need certainty about the destination. He needed courage to choose his own direction instead of accepting the default. The struggle is the goal, but only when it's struggle toward something you actually chose.

Just out of Curiousity: when did you realize you were climbing your own mountain vs. one that was assigned to you?

Craig Perry's avatar

Starting this newsletter was the big mountain for me!

O exus's avatar

Love it 🤩

Craig Perry's avatar

Thanks for reading!

Mehul Patel's avatar

This was very insightful.

As always amazing.

🙌🔥

Varun Joshi's avatar

I am inspired by the story Jonathan Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach,I see Jonathan in that penguin,on his way to achieve or experience something unimaginable.

Must read.

This was very insightful Craig, Thanks.

Craig Perry's avatar

Thank you for sharing!

haya's avatar

Woah man

Daniel Acosta's avatar

I have a feeling I'll be returning to this post many more times.

Craig Perry's avatar

Thanks for reading Daniel, I hope you’ve found it helpful in some way :)

joaquin drider's avatar

“The power of embracing uncertainty comes from the fact that it holds everything you could be” this just hit me. I needed to read it. You write amazing, I hope you grow a lot man

Craig Perry's avatar

Thank you Joaquin, love the profile pic!

Noha Elnashar's avatar

This perfectly summed up everything I’ve been going through for a year now, and I’m glad I’m not alone with it anymore. Thanks for the tips!

Craig Perry's avatar

Thanks for sharing Noha :)

Ashi Trigunayat's avatar

Thank you for writing this. I really needed that!🫶🏻

Craig Perry's avatar

Thanks for reading Ashi, I hope you enjoyed it :)

Chichi's avatar

B.A.R.S❤️

Craig Perry's avatar

Thank you Chichi!

Destiny S. Harris's avatar

This really lands, Craig. The idea that happiness comes from movement, not certainty, feels spot on, and the mountain metaphor is hard to shake. It’s a good reminder that choosing a direction matters more than getting it right.

Career Guy with AI's avatar

This resonates so deeply. I actually just got started on substack and wrote exactly about this. Stuff which was holding me back. Pls read if you get a chance.

https://open.substack.com/pub/betweenmeetingsandmeaning/p/the-voice-in-your-head-isnt-you-its?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=2d3ngc